Joel, you don't realize it, but you have a job opening at your house you may be tempted to let go unfilled. I advise against it. The job is drama creator.
Like many guys,
you tell yourself there's too much; I'll leave it to the movies; life is
sweet without it. Wrong. Like a dog without a job may turn bad, (he
will give himself one, and it may not be the one you'd like) an
avoidance of drama is a vacuum waiting to be filled, and the drama that
finds you, and it will, will be some sort of metaphorical coyote.
You must think deeply on these matters, as Musashi would say.